最後一次班會
作者:lisky 日期:2008-06-02
最後一次班會
2008.6.2 李宗薇
今天(5.26)是諸位碩班最後一次班會!剛才看了宗林製作的ppt,重溫兩年來班遊及其他的點滴;也不禁想,這是上週謝師宴的補救。我學廣電媒體製作,知道production很花時間,三分鐘的節目,常需花三十小時的心力。這份 ppt ,音樂、影像搭配的好,很感動。同學費心了!謝謝你們!
高中時國文課本有篇法國小說家都德(Daudet, A)的「最後一課」,是寫「普法戰爭」後法國割讓兩省,阿爾薩斯的學生最後一次上法文課的情景,因為以後學校只教普魯士語,故當天教室後排坐滿了小鎮的居民。我們最後一次班會不需那麼感傷,即或如今不再是「一日為師、終生為父」,但師生是primary relationship,情誼不因畢業離開學校而中斷,尤其現在網路無遠弗屆,歡迎大家不時捎個信,報導近況。
過來路上想,最後一次開班會導師要說些什麼呢?祝大家一帆風順,鵬程萬里?
記得十多年前博士班第一堂課,賈馥茗老師問「老師為什麼要管教學生,指正學生過錯?」原本安靜的班更加沈寂,氣氛頗緊張。我仗著年紀大些,回答說「那是因為老師愛學生,希望學生變好」。賈師聽這答案大概覺得「雖不中亦不遠矣」,點了頭。的確,近年教育環境變化很大,少子化的結果,許多家長對子女寵溺有加,認真負責的老師管教學生卻經常動輒得咎(這是指合理管教,不是體罰或羞辱學生),故不少教育工作者都自我提醒「多一事不如少一事」,看不慣的,忍忍算了!
有朋友聽到我在研究所教書,常羨慕說大學生、研究生比較好教,不需像中小學老師要管那麼多;再說學生都是成人,不會像青春期狂飆,除了讀書、寫論文,沒別的問題。是這樣嗎?如小學、中學階段基本的規矩沒學好,成為大學生後就自動循規蹈矩?如同小叮噹的任意門可隨心所欲到任何地方?
「師者」與「教者」不同。教者是照本宣科的教書匠,呻其佔畢;而師者是「修己成人」,要「傳道授業解惑」,解惑不只是解書本之惑,還包括人生之惑。也就是不僅傳授知識、技能,還包括做人做事的道理,「世事洞明、人情練達」皆在其中?
沒錯!「愛深責切」,我對導師班的學生以及指導論文學生的要求只有更高,希望同學日新又新、精益求精,在學問與人品上更上一層樓。
謝師宴對同學而言是一次難得的學習經驗,離開學校進入職場,你們會面臨更多複雜的情況。請大家記得ID,時時檢視自己的角色、盡份,把事情作對,Do things right。一個好的IDer,會權衡輕重,並重視後續的檢討改進,如此下回才有進步的可能。就謝師宴,我提出以下的觀察:
1. 謝師宴ppt
此次謝師宴播放之ppt不甚理想。如從ID角度檢視,企畫過程不符ID原則,謝師宴的對象是老師,那麼就應考慮老師的需求與特性。ppt放映的內容是不是以師長為主,且公平對待?還是變成某同學的個人秀,或獨重某位老師?音樂的選擇也是重點,你選的曲子恐怕也得其他人,如同組的同學聽聽再決定。ppt選的那首日文歌很熱鬧,有時音樂喧鬧對畫面反是干擾。字幕「感謝老師的陪伴與照顧」恐也不太恰當,老師不是你的學伴,也不是照顧你的babysitter,你的家人、朋友、同學等可能更適用此詞。如我當gatekeeper、恐怕過不了關。
2. 分工與合作
一個交響樂團要有好的表現,除了每個樂手有嫻熟的技巧,團員還要聽指揮的調度,否則木管、銅管、絃樂、打擊樂等各奏各的調,那不是和諧的樂音,而成了噪音了!如將班級比擬為樂團,班代就如同指揮家,是project manager。
PM的工作是對工作有整體架構、清楚每一個環節,並掌控進度;其次是識人,把任務交與適合的人;而整個過程都要溝通與協調,目標導向,督導各部照著計畫進行。謝師宴是班上大事,工作分配恐怕不能採「認養」方式,聽憑個人選擇;而應像「組內閣」,每項工作都應由最適合的同學出任,不僅是有人做,還要對的人做,有一定之quality。
因此工作分配是第一要務,接下來同學要問,怎麼分配呢?班代及幹部責無旁貸。同樣,不能以「有人填空即可」的心態,或「大家都是同學,我怎好要求別人?那不僅有傷同學和氣,還會得罪人」,那是鄉愿心態。
常有人將工作以科層制小組分工,若小組再「往下發包」或「認養」,那麼一個重大的任務,極可能僅一個人負責;此過程看似民主,但極可能變成one man show,因為沒有督導、查核的機制。當然也可能此one man各方都一流,萬夫莫敵,即或十個臭皮匠也敵不上;但如此人學藝不精,或個性剛愎難以溝通,那麼很可能因此搞砸整個任務,落實mission impossible,「使命不達」!
與其之後抱怨或後悔「我以為他會跟大家討論的!我以為他會好好作的!」,為什麼沒有「防患未然」?先前全面檢視,多盯著?身為幹部或小組長,「該做的沒做」也是失職!
3. 主持人與接待
主持人掌握現場氣氛,如何在輕鬆中不失莊重,其間分寸拿捏尤應謹慎。主持人不應只談個人經驗,而應從班上角度出發,如「我雖只有旁聽某老師的課,但聽說如何如何」,把自己的經驗拿掉,重點放在老師,才比較周延,也才是主持人的風範。
另外,與老師同桌用餐時不要只顧著祭五臟廟;或平常少跟同學碰頭,此時忙著跟身旁同學咬耳朵。謝師宴有其儀節的意義,不只是吃飯用餐,應與老師交談,才是主人之道。
以上是對於謝師宴的想法,坦誠說出供同學參考。最後,「書到用時方恨少」、「學然後知不足」,進入職場如發覺不足處,記得要充實與補強,it’s never too late,人生永遠學不完,學習的還應包括情緒控管、與人相處等。最後勉勵大家鍥而不捨,一旦認清目標與方向後,努力不懈,不輕言放棄!祝福大家以此精神邁向人生旅途!
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